Showing posts with label Let's Talk Romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Let's Talk Romance. Show all posts

Saturday, February 2, 2008

Let's Talk Romance: Coming Soon

I just went nuts at Chapters and bought seven new books:


I like how it's a combination of teen fiction and erotica, with a mystery novel thrown in because I am obsessed with reading organization self-help books and online tips. With any luck I'll be reviewing some of these on here soon.

I'm really impressed with the books in the Teen section of Chapters. I haven't explored Young Adult books in a long time and I was surprised to find that tons of major adult authors are writing teen books now. Even though Companions of the Night is one of my favourite romance novels and also happens to be a young adult book, looking for romance in the Teen section just hasn't occurred to me. It makes sense though -- teen books, because of their content restrictions, are great places to find UST. They're also great places to find angst because, well, they're TEEN books. However, just because content is restricted doesn't mean they aren't as complex as adult books. There was a huge selection of dark-paranormal-romantic stuff in there and a lot of it looked more complex than anything I've found in Romance or Horror lately. I'm definitely going to be browsing that section more from now on.

Monday, November 19, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: New Top Five

I haven't been reviewing lately -- I've read at least ten books since the last review, but it seems like so much work to actually take notes and prepare a review, etc., etc. Plus, I know no one actually reads this, and I tend to have problems responding to self-motivation. Anyway, until I manage to scrape up another review or brilliant insight into romance fiction as it stands today, I decided to pick five new romance songs to replace the old five. Here we go:

1. Foreigner - Cold as Ice
No one does angst like Foreigner. Think "I Want to Know What Love Is."

I've seen it before
it happens all the time
you're closing the door,
you leave the world behind
you're digging for gold,
you're throwing away
a fortune in feelings,
but someday you'll pay

you're as cold as ice


2. Pink - You Make Me Sick

You make me sick
I want you and I'm hating it


3. NIN - Perfect Drug
This has long been one of my favourites.

You make me hard
When I'm all soft inside
I see the truth
When I'm all stupid-eyed
The arrow goes straight through my heart
Without you everything just falls apart


4. Nickelback - Saving Me
I ain't got no love for Nickelback, but I do like this song

These city walls ain't got no love for me
I'm on the ledge of the eighteenth story
And oh, I scream for you

Come please I'm calling
And all I need from you
Hurry, I'm falling, I'm falling...


5. Bif Naked - Lucky

How can I ever get over you,
When I'd give my life for yours?


I think my list is a bit moodier than last time. Angst is always on my mind, though I think the level of darkness required to satisfy me fluctuates. For example, I could have put NIN's "Closer" instead of "Perfect Drug" -- "Closer" is a much more dark and raw song. Maybe next list.

Friday, June 15, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: Female vs. Male Perspective in Love Songs

A couple of weeks ago I got an idea for a series of short stories based on angsty song lyrics, and I just finished my first story and sent it off to my editor (a.k.a. Relena). The project has made me realize something that I find interesting -- most of the tortured, angsty love songs that I love so much and was so excited about using for my project are written and sung from the male perspective.

Why am I drawn to love songs from the male perspective? I have a couple of theories, and I'll use some quotes from one of my favourite articles, Modleski's "The Disappearing Act: A Study of Harlequin Romances" to add some oomph to my explanation.

The first theory is that love songs written from a male perspective give the same specific sense of dramatic irony that I find in romance novels. As the reader/listener/audience, I know something the heroine and often the hero do not. One of the most exciting and intriguing things about reading a romance novel is being privy to the knowledge that the hero, no matter how cold and unfeeling he may seem, is desperately in love with the heroine: "A great deal of our satisfaction in reading these novels comes...from our conviction that the woman is bringing the man to his knees and that all the while he is being so hateful, he is internally groveling, groveling, groveling" (441). Angsty songs written and sung from the male perspective often have the same effect of making me feel that I know something that the woman and sometimes even the man does not realize.

My other theory is ripped directly out of that article as well, and it is that women are conditioned to seek pleasure through the appraisal and approval of men: "'Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at'" [Modleski quoting Berger](445). I'm uncomfortable with this theory, because it would mean that I enjoy romantic songs from the male perspective because I've been conditioned to see myself from the male perspective, and this is how I receive my romantic (and presumably sexual) pleasure.

I tend not to agree with the second theory, at least not entirely, because I don't think I necessarily place myself in the role of the female in the song/book. Either way, I'm somewhat uncomfortable writing romance from the man's perspective, which I feel I pretty much have to do if I'm basing my stories on songs written from male perspective. I realize it is possible for a woman to do this realistically, but I'm not yet comfortable enough as a writer to feel confident about performing this task adequately. However, I'll see what the feedback is on my first story, which is Slow Dancing in a Burning Room.

Monday, May 14, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: Falina's Current Top Five Angsty Love Songs

I'd hate for anyone to think that I confine my love of romance purely to literature. I'm hoping to eventually review films here, and right now I'm going to list my current favourite love songs, with my favourite quotes from them. So, in no particular order...

1. Hinder - Lips of an Angel

My girl's in the next room,
Sometimes I wish she was you


That line is pretty much the only reason I like this song. I used to really be bothered by the concept of infidelity, in films and lyrics and otherwise, but I'm beginning to consider it a useful plot tool.

2. John Mayer - I Don't Trust Myself

No I'm not the man I used to be lately
See, you met me at an interesting time
And if my past is any sign of your future
You should be warned before I let you inside

Hold onto whatever you find baby
Hold onto whatever will get you through
Hold onto whatever you find baby
I don't trust myself with loving you


Oh, John Mayer and I have had a torrid relationship. I loved his early live stuff, hated the CD versions, hated him, his image, and his last couple of albums, and now I'm loving some of his newer stuff, like this (I'm assuming it's new) and "Slow Dancing in a Burning Room." He just got a sexy new haircut that makes him look vaguely like a cross between James Dean and Johnny Depp, too. I have the live version of this song, and I love his sexy, smoky voice.

3. Tegan and Sara - My Number

He grabs me by the hand, drags me to the shore
And says 'Maybe you don't love me, or you'll grow to love me even more'
And I, I'm not surprised


I'm currently trying to find some older and less tinny songs by Tegan and Sara. I don't enjoy their "Walking With a Ghost" style. I prefer their more earthy tunes, like this one, "Hype," and "Divided."

4. Chris Isaak - Wicked Games

And I don't want to fall in love
No I don't want to fall in love, with you


This song is a classic, and so angsty. I read Isaak's interpretation of this song described as "bewildered", and I like that. Bewildered and tortured. Mmm.

5. Ani Difranco - Your Untouchable Face

To tell you the truth I prefer the worst of you
Too bad you had to have a better half
She's not really my type, but I think you two are forever
And I hate to say it, but you're perfect together

So fuck you, and your untouchable face
And fuck you, for existing in the first place
And who am I, that I should be vying for your touch
'Said who am I, I bet you can't even tell me that much


I fell in love with Ani Difranco just a few hours ago...I hadn't really heard anything by her before tonight. She's brilliant. Her voice is so vibrant and colourful, and her lyrics are some of the best I've ever heard.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: The Romantic Hero and Universalism

I'm feeling my way through this topic without any formal academic understanding of Postmodernism itself, but I think it's an important point, at least one that's caused a couple of heated discussions between me and my "Po-mo is the Mo-fo" boyfriend.

When I talk about the Romantic/Byronic hero, I tend to make references to mythological/literary male characters that existed before the Romantic Period - Cain and Milton's Satan are two of my favourites. Jon's argument is that one can't look back with modern perceptions and label something that would not have been labeled at the time. The analogy that he uses, and one that makes sense to me, is to look at, say, ancient Greece and call the men homosexuals. Homosexuality as a term did not exist until thousands of years after this period; homosexuality itself did not exist until we defined it. So to look at, say, Cain, and define him as a Romantic hero does not really work, because Romantic heroes didn't exist until the Romantic Period.

I have trouble wrapping my head around this in some ways, because I know a Romantic hero when I see one. I recognize the combination of characteristics, the "character type" and I don't care whether the character was created thousands of years before Byron started writing or not. At the same time, this argument has made me realize something important -- the Romantic hero is not a thing. The Romantic hero is a perception. That's why I can look at Cain and see a Romantic hero and others in different time periods, including the one in which the Bible was written, can see him as a monster. He's the same character, with the same characteristics, but he can be perceived in different ways. Therefore, what I am interested in is the perception of characters -- Cain, Satan, Lestat, and so many others -- in a certain way, not in whether or not they written deliberately as such or whether there is something inherently "Romantic" in their makeup. It's modern perception that I'm interested in, and possibly Nineteenth-Century perception as well (since that is when the Romantic hero became a noticed a popular thing, and people began to actively create them). Maybe I'm interested in perception starting in the Nineteenth-Century and moving up to Contemporary. I'm really not sure of anything yet, but it's all so damned exciting!

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: Romance vs. romance

I'd like to talk about the "R/r" in romance - what it means when I use the capital "R" versus the lowercase "r". I know this might seem obvious to some of you, but it's an important point, because there is a big difference between, say, a Romantic hero and a romantic hero, and lines get blurred when I argue that the romantic hero IS the Romantic hero, as I am wont to do.

When I write the words romance or romantic with a lowercase "r", I am referring to romance as we define the term today, and when I refer to a "romance" or a "romantic" hero, I am referring to the hero of a romance fiction novel (for example, Wrath in Dark Lover), or, if I'm not pointing to a specific romance fiction text, to a character that embodies these "romance hero" characteristics. When I write "Romance" or "Romantic", I'm making a reference to the literature of the Romantic Period (approx. 1789-1837, though these numbers seem to shift depending on who one talks to). The Romance or Romantic hero is a character who embodies certain Romantic characteristics (for example, Manfred in Byron's Manfred is a Romantic hero). I will often refer to the Byronic hero as a Romantic hero, but technically he could be seen as a subcategory of the general Romantic hero type.

My academic argument (or rather, the argument I hope someday to make, in an Honour's or a Master's or a Ph.D thesis) is that not all Romantic heroes are romance heroes but all romance heroes are Romantic heroes. I realize that the "all" is problematic -- there are a lot of heroes in romance fiction today that do not have Romantic characteristics. However, the basic formula is a good point of departure.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: the Byronic Hero

I just passed in a creative project in Victorian Literature in which I first defined the Romantic hero and then searched for him in the novels of the Victorian Period. I thought I'd share some interesting tidbits:

Here's what Northrop Frye (an important Canadian theorist) has to say about the Romantic (and more specifically, the Byronic) hero:

“The so-called Byronic hero is often a Romantic version of the natural man, who, like Esau or Ishmael, is an outcast, a solitary much given to communing with untamed nature, and who thus represents the potentially expanding and liberating elements in that nature. He has great energy, often great powers of leadership, and even his vices are dignified enough to have some aesthetic attraction. He is often aristocratic in birth or behaviour, with a sense that, like Esau, he is the dispossessed rightful heir – here the theme combines with the sense of nostalgia for a vanished aristocracy. When he is evil, there is often the feeling that, as with Byron's Cain, his evil is comprehensible, that he is not wholly evil any more than society is wholly good, and that even his evil is a force that society has to reckon with” (30-31).

“[T]he “Byronic” hero...is placed outside the structure of civilization and therefore represents the force of physical nature, amoral or ruthless, yet with a sense of power, and often of leadership, that society has impoverished itself by rejecting” (41).

Mmm...doesn't that sound like every juicy male hero in romance fiction that you've ever lusted after? Here's another, similar description:

“...A man greater than others in emotion, capability, and suffering. Only among wild and vast forms of nature – the ocean, the precipices and glaciers of the Alps – can he find a counterpart to his own titanic passions. Driven by a demon within, he is fatal to himself and others; for no one can resist his hypnotic fascination and authority. He has committed a sin that itself expressions his superiority: lesser men could not even conceive a like transgression” (Perkins 782)

It makes me a little dreamy just to write out these descriptions – the Byronic hero IS the modern romance hero! It's simply amazing that these parallels are so obvious and yet no one's really talking about them.

I have a ton more ideas I'd love to write out, including my thoughts the fascinating concept of "Romantic agony" that Frye discusses briefly, but I've learned from reading other people's blogs that if it's too long, it doesn't get read, so I'll parcel out my exciting tidbits a little at a time.

Works Cited

Frye, Northrop. A Study of English Romanticism. New York:      Random House, 1968.
Perkins, David, ed. “George Gordon, Lord Byron:      Introduction.” English Romantic Writers. San Diego: HBJ,      1967. 779-787.

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: A Poem

Romance
By Andrew Lang

My lover dwelt in a Northern land.
A grey tower in a forest green
Was hers, and far on either hand
The long wash of the waves was seen,
And leagues on leagues of yellow sand,
The woven forest boughs between.

And through the silver Northern light
The sunset slowly died away,
And herds of strange deer, lily-white,
Stole forth among the branches grey;
About the coming of the light,
They fled like ghosts before the day.

I know not if the forest green
Still girdles round that castle grey;
I know not if the boughs between
The white deer vanish ere the day;
Above my love the grass is green,
My heart is colder than the clay.

I'm not sure I would use this as a representative of romance (as Henry A. Beers seems to have done by including before the preface to his A History of English Romanticism in the Nineteenth Century), but there is a lot in it that I would consider romantic (and Romantic) and it reminds me of a lot of things I have read -- The Lord of the Rings, Rebecca, The Last Unicorn, some of L.J. Smith's books from the Night World series...I could probably go on. Doesn't it have that lonely haunting quality that works so well for romance?

Monday, March 5, 2007

Let's Talk Romance: Blogs

I've been searching on and off for a while...and now I've found a couple of solid looking blogs that discuss romance fiction from an analytic/academic point of view:

http://teachmetonight.blogspot.com
http://www.romancingtheblog.com/blog/

Also (and I got this directly from the first blog) a documentary called "Who's Afraid of Happy Endings?" discussing romance fiction is going to be playing on BRAVO! in Canada on Thursday, March 8th, at 8:30 PM EST. As someone who has been searching for a long time (albeit half-assedly) for any information on romance fiction on the internet, I assure you that this is big and wonderful and exciting and has already proven worth the effort (that documentary is a great find! I suggest that everybody watch it!)